A number of years ago, I had an old friend who used to say, “Never try to drive your car by looking in the rear-view mirror. You’d do better to look out the windshield.” While it sounded a little weird, I understood what he was getting at. Don’t let experiences that are behind you control where you are going now.
It is important to make a clear decision to leave the past behind and pull away from the things that have kept you from being all that you can be through the Lord Jesus. Forgive. Clear the slate. Forget. Release the past so that you can proceed without anything besetting you. Stop trying to drive by looking in the rear-view mirror.
Hebrews 12:1 — Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset [us], and let us run with patience the race that is set before us.
Philippians 3:12-14 — Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.